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Naming Body Parts Without Shame

We use correct names for body parts. This helps her communicate clearly, understand her body, and removes secrecy that can make children vulnerable.

Consent Starts Early

We practice consent in small ways. If she says no to a hug or wants space, it is respected. This teaches her that her VOICE matters and her boundaries are valid.

Boundaries and Safety

We talk about safe touch, unsafe touch, and the importance of telling me if anything makes her uncomfortable. I want her to know she can always speak up and be believed.

Why I Do Not Allow Sleepovers

This is not judgment toward other families. It is a choice to protect her. Too often, harm happens with people children know and trust. Boundaries now give her space and safety.

Why This Matters to Me

Nothing happened to me as a child, but as a teenager I experienced sexual coercion and assault.

Those experiences showed me how crucial it is to teach children their voice, worth, and the power to protect themselves early.

Raising a Confident Child

My goal is not to raise a fearful child. It is to raise a confident girl who trusts her instincts, understands her worth, and knows her body is her own. Teaching bodily autonomy starts now.

Statistics to Keep in Mind

Sexual violence against children is more common than most people realize.

Globally, about 90 million children alive today have experienced sexual violence. More than 370 million girls and women were subjected to rape or sexual assault before the age of 18, which is roughly one in eight girls. In the United States, an estimated one in four girls and one in 13 boys experience sexual abuse before turning 18.

These numbers highlight why teaching children bodily autonomy, boundaries, and the confidence to speak up is so important.